single vs double

i was out breaking fast with dear friends at kajang a couple of days ago..
and a friend of mine was asking..
"idya, geng2 kite sme dh ade bf/gf, kau bile lagi?"
hehe.. a question which i alwayys2 malas nk jawab..
but being me, i simply jawab.. "malas aa.. aku still nk lepak dgn korg lagi.."
(my clique consists of 11 people with 3 girls + 8 boys..)


on my way back to shah alam, however..
i can't help but think..
the question sumhow filled every corner of my mind..

so, to whom who might be asking again and again,
i've come out with a number of reasons why i wish to and not to remain single.. :)


i want to be double because:

1. i love the idea of a true companion. someone to bermanje, baby talk, a shoulder to cry on, bla..bla..bla
2. peer pressure..(demm!) the fact that everyone around me IS already having a partner, in fact some of them dh ade a perfect family.
3. as atie said, the merriment of the wedding ceremony.

and i choose to remain single because:

1. i want to travel to as many places as i can with my girls.
2. i still want to enjoy the luxury of doing anything i like or pergi anywhere i like without giving any report or update to anyone.
3. i still want to hangout with my (boy) friendss without anyone getting jealous.
4. i still want to enjoy my hard-earned money for my ownself. i want to buy unnecessary things and anything i like without someone membebel.
5. i still want to go back to my mommy's house EVERY WEEK which i'm pretty much sure i wont be able to do it after having someone special.
6. i am mentally not ready. i still want to be mommy's and abang's little girl (but big, size-wise.. demm..!) and i still want to sleep with my teddy bear and duduk sesuke hati di atas sofa menonton tv and put a pillow under my baju after eating.
7. i still want to enjoy the 'monthly allowance' abang gives me.. hehehehe..
8. i dont want to think about the life after the wedding. i still can't imagine living with the same person for the rest of my life (not yet.. huhu..)
9. err.. because i'm being a li'l finicky perhaps. i bother about how a guy eats, how he walks, how he talks.
10. and because my girls do not like the guy i really like at the moment.. hahahaha.. :p

hehehe.. u see, how much the latter outnumbers the former.. but anyway, i dont give much damn actually, i leave everything to Allah, if the time comes and the right person is standing right at my doorstep, i would be happy to open the door and welcome him into my life. but if he is still finding his way to my doorstep, then i would be happy too enjoying my life while waiting for him.. damdimdum..